Lots of people do things that they feel are totally fine and are not ashamed of doing at all, on any level- so long as no one finds out about it.
I think most of us, in fact, likely have a few things (or at least one really good one) that we can recall doing in our lives that, while we don't personally disapprove of them, or feel they're a bad thing, or even regret doing, that's only because no one else knows you've done it.
And as Sharon said, even the anonymous email will leave her panicking on just who it was that saw it, whether or not "they" appear to be just passing along a "heads up" so she knows they're out.
So BCD, have you made a decision on what avenue to take? Did you do something already? What were the results?
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