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I have to say, in all honesty, my opinion (though not my answer) has changed slightly from when I read it was him to when I read it was his wife. I think some others may have experienced the same thing but aren't willing to admit it due to how it looks. I am not a person who worries about posturing over truth.
When I thought it was you, I was going to say that you need to knock off the drinking if you're forgetting shit and admitting to doing it too often, and move along with your life and marriage with the promise to not hang out with the other chick anymore.
Now that I know it was your wife doing this, I can't help but feel this is more of a betrayal because it was her doing it and not you. Maybe it's because I first sympathized, and now I hate her for doing that to you, or maybe it's because I feel like a woman's infidelity is somehow even worse than a man's- and that is NOT to say I at all find male infidelity acceptable... I just somehow find it even WORSE when a woman is doing it.
Well... I think the result should be the same... get the drinking in check and she shouldn't be spending time with him anymore.
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