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Originally Posted by abaya
The only thing that bugs me about other women is when they dress like complete sluts (usually the sorority girls, on weekend nights), but you get used to it in a college town.  |
as an aside:
this is a little of what I'm talking about, although the women I mentioned reacted to the way I dressed even though it was moderate, this is the more extreme end of the spectrum, but your reaction is similar, you're passing judgement on her style of dress. This is what I'm objecting to.
I don't care for the term slut. It's often misused. What is dressing like a "complete slut" anyway?
Everyone defines it differently. conservative people would say it's showing a little skin, someone else would say it's when showing a body part fully. It's a subjective term.
I've noticed that when woman want to show off a little and feel good about themselves, it's okay. But when Other women do it... Those women are being "slutty" and therefore it's inappropriate.
for the sake of discussion
Why does it bother you when someone dresses one way or another? So, a woman enjoys when she wears high heels and a short skirt or showy dress... why does that bother you? If she's happy with her style of dress, why is that something that causes you irritation?
thanks,
sp