Oh, I'm such a slob by nature...
It takes SERIOUS motivation for me to put more than minimal effort into my appearance. I guess I sort of take pride in that... last night I went to the corner mart for milk at 11pm wearing my blue flannel pajama pants, a black wool overcoat (formal), a lime green scarf, and slip-on grandma-like
Börn sandals. All these frat and sorority people were in line buying stuff for finals studying, and I was just standing there, sort of realizing that I probably looked a bit odd, but oh well.
I kind of enjoy being odd, most of the time.
I'm mostly comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, though at night I do feel sexier if I am dressed up in a nice tank-top and dark jeans, wearing some make-up. Mostly it's just because I like to change things up once a week, on a night out with my husband, but not because I am around other women necessarily. The only thing that bugs me about other women is when they dress like complete sluts (usually the sorority girls, on weekend nights), but you get used to it in a college town.