I hope I dont sound to cynical, but come on.. You don't remember? For some reason I just don't buy it. If you are that god damn drunk you need to possibly seek out some help, because you are an alcholic.
Secondly, this should be a no brainer, unless you are unhappy in your relationship, and want an out. What you need to ask yourself is this, are you "In love" with your wife? Or do you "love" her because you're comfortable with her.
I'm not trying to be a dick here, but like I said, if this gal is a friend and a mutual friend at that then she needs to understand that you are obligated to your wife and need to respect her. Me personally I dont have many female friends, but I could understand my wifes concern if I were always off running around with the few that I have. It would be the equivalent if your wife told you she'd be home in a few hours and was off partying with some guy friend.
Personally I would tell the friend honestly whats going on, and if she's a true friend to you, and your wife it won't be too big of a deal. However if she flips about it then maybe there are some issues there.
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Just remember this my friend, when you look up at the sky, you can see the stars and still not see the light..
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