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Deltona/Zed: Sorry about the terms I used, and I agree with you. There's "no", and there's "maybe". A maybe can be convinced into a yes, but a no will remain a no and must be respected as such. There's also "yes, but..." which also requires negotiation. In a way, I've had to "talk myself" into it.
Also, I'm doing this research first to make sure that I'm completely comfortable with the logistics of what it would take to pull this fantasy off before I introduce it directly to my wife, and so that I can answer some questions that she might bring up. We have had sex watching porn before, and have discussed some fantasies just from the standpoint of fantasies before, so once I'm completely comfortable, I'll be able to talk to her about it. Also, we enjoy nude beaches, so she's been naked in front of strangers before.
Shani: Unfortunately, I don't see myself visiting Georgia anytime soon. Especially unfortunate since watching a blowjob live is a prime element of the fantasy for me.
ASU: Yeah, I first heard the term "monogamous group sex" from the podcast connected to that adult game store. Cool podcast.
And I'll check out a couple of those finder websites. Perhaps there are others on there who aren't looking to swap, I just assumed that that's what they were for.
One of my wife's absolute steadfast rules is "no sharing". She doesn't mind that I enjoy porn, or that I ogle other women, as long as that energy comes back to benefit her. I believe that this still fits within her rule, but we'll see. If it doesn't happen, it was and will remain fun to think about. She's more important than this fantasy.
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