Deltona Couple beat me to it. I too dislike anything involving 'talking her/him into it' in my opinion that is never a good idea. Perfectly ok to bring up the subject and get your partners opinion of it but if they are against it leave it at that.
As for finding others of like minds, defiantly look into swinger clubs. they should be easy to find and most will have gatherings where you can hang out with others that share your interests. Swinging is not always about swapping.
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