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^ as mentioned, my partner would never have sat and watched me feel up some guys shirt, drunk or not. The guy would be kicked out. I'd be in deep after sobering up. No more party. Out with everyone! or.. we'd be going home.
I'm sure your wife will not mind one less male friend if its to save your marriage. I had a lot of male friends, some who were quite close and my bf found it uncomfortable. So I simply didn't contact them if it wasn't really necessary. They were good friends but not more important than my bf. Some who I had to explain the situation to, didn't understand why and accused him of being controlling, unreasonable, posessive etc.. they were the ones to go permanently.
I still have male friends, but i limit them to my best friends from high school. Old friends. I still have my girl friends, so I'm not in the least upset about this arrangement. Its not like I havn't requested similar things concerning his female friends.
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