abaya, I completely agree with you. In fact, she was the one that found me and made the first move. That was a big turn-on for me because for once, the socially accepted views of "He wants to date me because he wants to get into my pants" ideal wouldn't apply. In a way, she was/is a leader and I sure do like that!
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Originally Posted by jerseyboy
You are so young, you just need to be patient there is plenty of time for things to happen. If you truly love this girl and it is as deep and unexplainable as you say then the intimacy you crave shouldnt be sex it should just be being with her. Lets face it, the first time you have sex, it probably wont be a great experience. She'll most likely be in some sort of discomfort and you wont last too long, hardly the intimate and truly special occasion you are looking forward to. I'd just drop trying to pressure her into it, and let it just happen. When she is ready she'll make it clear.
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Wow, well said! You are right, maybe oral sex is a better way of us expressing intimacy after all. The rest will happen, the same way this happened. Right time for everything I guess...
Thanks
everyone for making this into such an interesting and informative thread. Learned a lot and I'm sure others will when it enters the TFP archives
-GK