I'd be more concerned about your wife having feelings for him than if she should hang out with him or not. Who cares if she hangs out with him or not or pats him or rubs him or fucks him? It's the same situation if she has FEELINGS for him no matter what she does to him physically. Her rubbing him is the least of your worries. You need to find out if she is attracted to him, if she likes him as more than a friend, and if she's serious about the feelings. Find out if she loves you and if she has any insecurities or problems with your marriage. The rubbing doesn't mean shit if she really has feelings for him, sober or not. If she REALLY loves you, and REALLY doesn't have feelings for the guy, then the physical part of rubbing can be attributed to alcohol and be forgiven. Otherwise your wife has feelings for 2 men.
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