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Originally Posted by abaya
Why does there have to be a "leader," in bed or otherwise? What's so "wrong" with taking turns and seeing each other as equal initiators and receivers?
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Good question. Maybe it's biological and we've evolved to be that way. Maybe it's a result of social gender roles. [slickedit, props to cadre for reminding me about those] What I do know is that in order for me to get people to do just about anything, I have to take charge and push and push and push because they will just ignore me otherwise, certainly not limited to sexuality and women but especially including them. It might be that the sex difference is rooted in biology and it's going to take more than 50 years of social change to overcome hundreds of thousands of years of primate/human evolution. Perhaps, and more hopefully, it's just a social construct that we have yet to break down.