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Old 12-18-2006, 09:32 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Funny thing about wedding plans-they don't always go exactly the way you want. There will be hurt feelings, stress, compromising, etc...
If you are closer than sisters, perhaps having her stand witness would not be bad but ultimately, it is your decision and you have to weigh one thing against another. And you know how she is and how she might take the change of mind.
Insinuating herself into the plans was pushy, admittedly. But she did so out of love and excitement for you.
It comes down to which could you live with more? Changing your mind, thereby possibly hurting the feelings of your best friend(she'll feel left out, etc), or including her as an important person in your life and sharing the most important day of your life with her?
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