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Old 12-18-2006, 04:32 AM   #29 (permalink)
Lizra
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Location: rural Indiana
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Originally Posted by Kelzie
Lord, I might be the only woman here who feels this way, but it's just sex.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I think sex is fantastic, but it seems like some young women put way to much pressure on it. It's just not that big of a deal. As she gets older and matures, she will come to realize it's just a normal part of a relationship.

So my advice: don't put too much pressure on her, don't act like it's a big deal. Just act like it's the next stage in your relationship, which really, it is.
Heh! No kidding...back in the old days, a guy just naturally tried to get in your pants, you either let him or you didn't, whoopee doo....another step on the ladder of life.
I can't imagine putting a guy's dick in my mouth first ....that seems far more personal imo....than just fucking...Perhaps your virginity is some of the issue here too..... I dunno.....
I got birth control pills before I was sexually active. Maybe try this....Give her a playful, "I'm a very horny guy and you are driving me crazy look" and ask her if she's taking birth control yet? She should get the hint.....

I was so glad to get that business over with....of course, it wasn't as big of a deal as it had been made out to be...nothing was, except getting pregnant and having a baby!
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