abaya

Welcome to the TFP; we like straight-forward people, don't worry. You'll get used to it.

Btw, of all the people who have replied so far (including me), listen the most to ratbastid. He does, after all, speak the truth.

Anyway, sorry, but her line that you're "hard to please" because you don't come quickly?? Are you kidding? She's almost trying to make you feel guilty or something, instead of trying to learn more about how to make you come (in my opinion).

Perhaps you should get her the book "How to Tickle His Pickle", with advice on giving some damn good BJ's and handjobs (that way, you also won't be pressuring her to have sex... just to give better BJ's, hehe). If you think she'd be open to reading it, that is, and not insulted by the idea. There's so much more out there, and if she REALLY wants to please you, she should be educating herself. Does she lick your balls, btw? That can have AMAZING results.

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