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I agree with most of the folks on here...try not making a huge thing out of it, enjoy the playing around that you do and it will happen...probably sooner than you think.
As for the getting her drunk thing, it certainly wouldn't be appropriate to get her staggering drunk - not only would it not be ethically right, but the sex would be disappointing, as well - but a glass or three of wine might take the edge off her hesitancy if it's simply a matter of insecurity or simple inhibition. Having sex with your tipsy girlfriend certainly isn't rape. Nevertheless, I do understand the wisdom of a disclaimer.
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