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Old 12-17-2006, 08:44 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by GK.12.3
Kelzie, maybe that's why older guys tell me, "Act like you don't care. That'll make her want you more." Ehh? Just for the hell of it, I told her once that I wouldn't have sex with her until I got married (and I told her it wouldn't happen in the next 7-10 years). She was quiet for some time until I told her it was a joke
I think you missed the point of that advice. It's not "act like you don't care." It's: DON'T CARE. I promise you'll get laid a hell of a lot more if you can get to a place where you genuinely don't care about it. What you pulled here was an act that you tried out of desperation in an attempt to manipulate her into wanting to do something she doesn't want to do. She wasn't silent because she was sad about no sex. She was silent because she was busy thinking what a jerk you were being.

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I don't want to pressure her
Then stop pressuring her. The only way it will EVER happen is if you stop working so damn hard about it.
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