BTW as far as the people giving you advice to get her drunk, I know you said you won't do that but for any others that might be reading this thread, that advice is idiotic. It's called rape, and you can go to jail for it. I didn't see the OP mention he wanted dumbassed advice in here.
now, GK, I'm saddened that you've taken psychology classes and still can't recognize that you ARE pressuring the hell out of her. Constantly bringing it up, joking about it, saying you want to stop everything if she won't give you sex, that's all pressure, and a lot of it. Knock it off. Let things happen. You don't need to drag her off to your bed by the hair and ravage her before she's ready. Believe it or not, you will not die if you don't get laid this week. The more you kibitz with her about it the more uncomfortable she's going to be with the whole situation. At best she'll never have sex with you. At worst, she'll drop you and go find a guy that will let her take her own pace in the matter.
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