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abaya, thanks for the post. While I don't think oral sex is a bad aspect in our relationship, I think it's made things worse. I'm confused more than ever and I think she is too... I told her numerous times that I rather stop everything completely than to be partially intimate. She freaked out. You're right, maybe she isn't physically and emotionally ready for it. I guess, time will tell. Regarding pregnancy, we've talked about it and being the paranoid self I am, I don't think I'll ever have sex with her unless I have a condom on. STD's is out of the question...
Kelzie, I agree. I guess the old fashioned "norms" have still survived. There is too much pressure when it comes down to sex, yet there is no pressure when it comes down to oral sex. I think young women associate one act with security while the other, with insecurity.
I too think it's a normal part of a relationship and I'm guessing she will only commit such act when she is sure I'm the one for her.
-GK
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