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Just FYI, I'm a woman and waited till I was 24 to have sex. However, I was not giving BJ's at 19, either, so I don't know what to tell you. In a way, losing one's virginity *can* be a much bigger deal for women, due to that whole hymen thing (the irreversible part). Still, unless she's religious, it doesn't make much sense why she wants to wait. Does she masturbate?
The only other thing I can imagine is that she simply isn't ready to have you *inside* her. It's a major thing to let someone push himself, even gently, into your body (even if you like him a lot)... it's a powerful feeling to feel someone moving inside you for the first time. You might want to ask what is lacking emotionally, for her, to make her resist letting you in that way. Oral sex has nothing on penetration, in that sense.
Or, is she just plain scared of pregnancy? STD's?
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