james t kirk

You're young. I used to worship women too when I was your age. I used to think that they could do no wrong, that if a relationship ended, it was because the guy was a dick. Not any more. Women tend to be cold, calculating, and very oportunistic under the surface. They will dump just about any BF if they think they can do better. A man won't do the same thing. We men tend to look for stability in our lives, even when relationships aren't that good, we hesitate to get out of them. Hence the reason why 2 thirds of all divorces are initiated by women.

But don't believe me, read Divorce fact No. 10 here:

http://health.discovery.com/centers/...s/divorce.html

Wait till you get to by my age (I know I sound like an old coot, but, I have a lot more experience than you, and believe me, it counts for something.) According to your profile, you are 21. Well, I'm 42 and have been around the block a few times. Women at your age are not yet into their mercenary stage. That doesn't really happen till the late 20's early 30's. Once they get there, something happens, some gene kickes in, and they change.

If that's bleak, then I am guilty of being bleak, I agree. The only women in this world I trust are my mother and my sister, and unfortunately, my mother is gone. Sad but true. I sit here right now and I think of the women I know as friends, or those I have known as a lover and I ask myself, "Which one do I trust?" I can't honestly think of one. Ask me which one of my male friends I trust and I could honsestly say, everyone of my close friends.