Thank you Elphaba and cadre, I will check those songs out. I do have that NIN song Closer. That one might work. I would like to try a variety.
And one of our most charming male comrades here at tfp pm'd me with a suggestion: Give Me One Reason to Stay Here by Tracy Chapman & Eric Clapton
...which is a version off of A Very Special Christmas Live cd if I remember correctly...which I already have. And I agree it is an excellent choice. The blues is very bump and grindy.
Which also reminded me of Pride and Joy by Stevie Ray Vaughan. That one's pretty sexy...and it has a special significance in its title.