I think as Sultana sorta said that it's a personal choice. You have to feel it in the music. Some people like slower music, some fast, some with a strong beat. Sometimes all, but in different moods.
As for me, Pat Benatar has a few songs that I've danced to: Love is a Battlefield and Heartbreaker.
I also made a tape for my ex-fiance to a Rob Zombie song, but I don't remember it. And it might have been White Zombie. I don't know...he liked the song and I felt the 'stripping' urge with it.
Boom, I Fucked Your Boyfriend is an awesome song to perform to. That was done at a dragshow... lots of fun.
Also, Personal Jesus by Depeche Mode can be good.
Experiment with how you want to do it. What you want to start out wearing. And what makes you feel sexy and so hot you want to take it all off and attack. My most recent song like that was She Wants Revenge: Tear You Apart. In fact, it was an interesting walk to the bus stop in my head this morning.
