Oh boy...Woman! We need to get together. I have a long list of songs and...you do know that I perform burlesque on the side, right?
Here are a very few of my current favorites:
Feelin' Good - Michael Bublé
American Woman - Lenny Kravitz
Shh! - Bjork
The Letter O - Sesame Street
Perhaps - Doris Day
I'm much more into the old-fashioned peel and tease, but if you want more modern "stripping", NIN's album "Pretty Hate Machine" is always good.
The important thing is that you really connect with it, it makes you want to take your clothes off--it's almost hard to *not* take your clothes off when you hear it. What ever song that ends up being--that's *your* song.
Feel free to PM me (or continue posting here, of course) for any more specifics.