I think of it this way. If there is something you can live with doing, then a person whom you want to be with would have to accept that.
If I was comfortable enough to do what you were solicited to do then my SO would have to be comfortable with it as well, or else she wouldn't be the kind of person I'm looking for.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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