View Single Post
Old 12-09-2006, 06:19 PM   #49 (permalink)
Telluride
Browncoat
 
Telluride's Avatar
 
Location: California
Quote:
Originally Posted by ratbastid
A parent's rules should be like gravity. Gravity never explains the rules. Gravity just enforces the rules, universally, immediately, and without deviation. Mess with gravity's rules, you end up on your butt, no matter how much you whine or pout about it. By the time we're 2 or so, we've got that figured out, and we never question gravity's rules again.
I disagree with this statement. I think parents should explain the rules whenever possible. It is, in my opinion, better that the child know why certain behavior is wrong. It may eventually help the child make decisions regarding behavior if they are faced with something that they haven't specifically been scolded/punished for.
__________________
"I am certain that nothing has done so much to destroy the safeguards of individual freedom as the striving after this mirage of social justice." - Friedrich Hayek
Telluride is offline  
 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60