| [QUOTE=waltert]there was no question in the statement made.  it clearly states that he/she is making an assumption about what your intended meaning is...
 Um, thankyou?  Needless to say, I feel qualified to use the word queer.  This in much the same way that many other subtypes use words that they don't accept from others' mouths.  I trust that that is clear enough?
 To the OP, I am told that complete openness is the only way to have a healthy relationship, and I have observed that these people seem to be doing much better, read happily, than, say, for instance, me.  I always tell the kids that we make our own paths.  Good luck sharing, or not sharing.  Porn or honesty or whatever.  Keeping something to yourself doesn't necessarily comprise lying, IMHO.
 
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