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well as good natured as ya'll seem to be, sometimes telling her may not be the right choice. its not just about being honest with your partner, though technically speaking he's not being dishonest.
from what i understand he's not having a relationship with this person. there are no emotions, and no sex. its just an outlet that he feels he needs. it may be that his girlfriend does not think highly of such things or that she thinks its wrong for a multiple range of reasons. his girlfriend may not share his views and he feels the need to do this to fulfill a fantasy/desire etc..
wonderbar would be in the best position to judge whther he should or shouldnt tell his girlfriend. theres obvioulsy some guilt, but it may be guilt based on the wrong reasons. many people feel the guilt of sexual related activities due to taboos or issues that arent commonly spoken of. but im also a firm believer also that not all things should be shared with your partner. and yes we all have deep dark secrets that no one else knows about so lets stop with the moral high ground nonsense.
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