You'd better tell her. She'll find out sooner or later on her own and it will be at the worst possible time. And trust me, you don't want that to happen. The results can be very bad. As mixedmedia pointed out, there is another real person on the other end. Best you get her feelings on this and fess up now. As a female, I can tell you that I would not want to be kept in the dark on this one. But as others pointed out, she may surprise you. Keep in mind though, that if she agrees to it, it usually goes both ways.
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