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You need to talk to your girlfriend about it. It would be deceitful to have a secret relationship with another person of a sexual nature. It is a real person on the other side of the relationship who you are sharing very real intimacy with, even though you may not ever see or meet this person.
Like everyone else has said, talk to your girlfriend. You may just imagine that she wouldn't be interested. Women are often very uncomfortable talking about their sexual desires and give off the impression that they are not into sex very much...until they get used to it. Then watch out! Inhibition can be overcome with a lot of encouragement and positive reinforcement, as well. Don't count her out too soon.
Good luck, Wunderbar.
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