I have two kinds of fantasies. Fantasies I would like to live out (and have)...such as the previous one I mentioned. And those I would not.
One of my fantasies that I don't think I would ever want to be real is the thought of having spontaneous sex with a total stranger. That's pretty common, too, especially in porn. It doesn't appeal to me in "real life," but it recurs very often in my fantasies. And sometimes, going about my life, I will see a man that I picture myself engaging in quite an indelicate, spur of the moment bout of insuppressible fucking - it has nothing to do with looks...it's just an unanticipated impulse. I've always heard that men do this alot. I'd be interested to hear if many other women do this, too.
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