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macmanmike6100 · 12-06-2006, 09:20 AM

We went out a couple of times (coffee, then night in the city) a couple of weeks back after a week of phone-conversations after I met her at her work, and after not hearing from her for a week after the second date (and after me calling a couple of times), she apologizes for being MIA.

I was out of town for the following week and called upon my return, but now she emailed (she's a touch younger than I am, so I guess this is a valid way to respond to a phone call?) saying that she's overloaded with work and "can only see her boyfriend and friends" -- ??

So a couple of things:
- I'm not big on spending time/effort on a girl who tells me she's got a boyfriend...I wasn't looking for a friend in her, obviously...but I'm still interested in her if she wasn't dating this guy

- I obviously feel like I should respond to her email, but what would you say?

Thanks in advance everybody; it's been a while since I've dated.

12-06-2006, 09:20 AM	#1 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	What to say to girl you started seeing but is now talking about her boyfriend? We went out a couple of times (coffee, then night in the city) a couple of weeks back after a week of phone-conversations after I met her at her work, and after not hearing from her for a week after the second date (and after me calling a couple of times), she apologizes for being MIA. I was out of town for the following week and called upon my return, but now she emailed (she's a touch younger than I am, so I guess this is a valid way to respond to a phone call?) saying that she's overloaded with work and "can only see her boyfriend and friends" -- ?? So a couple of things: - I'm not big on spending time/effort on a girl who tells me she's got a boyfriend...I wasn't looking for a friend in her, obviously...but I'm still interested in her if she wasn't dating this guy - I obviously feel like I should respond to her email, but what would you say? Thanks in advance everybody; it's been a while since I've dated.