Now that is hot. The rape thing is very pervasive... I know all too many women who just want to be... *handled.*
Now the shower thing is interesting. Gets me thinking about custom showers.
One thing that really gets me going is sweat. Any hint of moist, shiny skin and I am in full gear. One of the common fantasies I have in my head involve trying to grasp my girl by her hips, and my hands are slipping all over because she's working up a good sweat as we're fucking like mad. Oh, and do I love it when it does happen. Thats one of the reasons why I keep my room almost sweltering hot.