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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
This may be so if you are "shopping" for a husband or wife, but once you are in love with a person you may not find it as easy to summarily reject them on these grounds.
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hear hear!!
I agree to a point and notice how many people marry others even when they weren't the "perfect" choice. Perhaps it's because they finally realize that nobody is perfect.
I mean seriously, how many people who think sex for money is wrong (prostitution) wouldn't sleep with a pornstar? I can't say I wouldn't. Hell, most people (women and men) have that one celeb/person that they just want to jump no matter what.
I'm not a romantic, but I'd like to think that once love comes into the picture it releases the "bonds" of mistakes and brings something better about. Actually, I bet that's why I'm married, because if shit I've done in the past really mattered, I would be a lonely man.
It's not wrong to have deal breakers, but IMO it is wrong to say no to someone whom you might care about because of their past especially if you weren't a part of that past.