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Originally Posted by guccilvr
people say they wouldn't marry someone who had helter skelter sex with random people for money. Would you marry someone who got drunk in clubs and slept with random people in a college setting?? I have a feeling that most people have and will.
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I'm guess this is to me since helter skelter is used. No, as others have mentioned that is a deal breaker for me. I never wanted to be with a guy that slept with random people and I never was. If I found out they were, end of relationship for me. The only reason I mentioned this is because the OP asks if she should tell and if it would make a difference. As some people stated it wouldn't matter, but other people do care about that. Same with smoking, drinking, or any action that people do. I had people not date me because I smoked. And that's a lot smaller than prostituting oneself. I never had relationships with these people because if someone is choosing to have random sex it says something about their character. Every action makes you the person you are today. So even if the act is in the past, the outcome of it is still in the present.
This thread has turned away from the OP in a way. I think she should tell people she is sexually involved with, outside of prostitution, because of the fact that diseases could be involved. Also, if she is going to be serious with a person, it would be a weight on her not to tell and try to keep a secret. The truth generally comes out sometime anyway. Why do something now that you are certain or might think you will be ashamed of in the future?
That's just my opinion and I'm entitled to it. You've heard of the asshole analogy I'm sure. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and some of them stink more than others. I don't care if you agree or disagree, I just think that people who feel the way I do are being made to feel like there is something wrong with our thinking. We are all different and it would be boring if we all thought the same way.