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I hardly think you can compare a man being a rapist (ie violent idiot) to a woman exhanging money for sex...thats ridiculous
Lots of men consider women to be prostituting themselves if they pay for dinner and then fuck the girl (again that person is an idiot), thats one reason if I knew I wanted to screw a guy, I paid either for every thing or my share (thats one of the things Dave loved about me when we first met)
Self esteem, legalities aside...to answer the OP, I would never be with a man I couldnt share 100% of my past with. As Dave always says, the past is not "dead" its whats made me into the person he loves and cherishes. I have a sexual history that would make some men turn and run scared, on the other hand there are guys that are not intimidated or put off by it at all. All men are different, thats why its so hard to find the "right" one sometimes. I dont want someone to "forgive" my past, Im not looking for absolution from a mate, he can either understand it or move on.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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