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I'll concur with most everyone else on this one. If this is giving you mental, moral, ethical qualms (which it seems is obvious) then don't do it. It's not worth it. In the future, any monetary gain will be gone and forgotten. Money comes and goes like water. But regret or doubt can be very hard to shake off, especially if it involves a possible dilemma for you in a future relationship. I've found in my 41 years on the planet thus far that the less secrets you have the better. And we all have some, it's near impossible to not accumulate some secrets in our lives, but some have more magnitude and carry more risk than others. If you're worried about this being a thorn in your side in the future then don't do it, don't do it, don't do it. Good luck, babe.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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