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Not everything is what it seems. My "gut" has gotten me into a lot of trouble in the past.
Things work when you're together for a few days because you spend so much time apart talking that when you meet physically it's heaven.
You can't really know what this may become or not until you guys spend some proper time together.
For me, I'd try and wait before having sex, to know whether it might actually work, the two of you together. Since you're a virgin, rushing it might be something you regret later, particularly if you are attaching romantic notions to that first time.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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