ghostgirl:
hey, don't get nervous. i went through the same thing you're going through. i had what they call "severe dysplasia" which just means really bad HPV cells. they can get rid of them easily. the colposcopy is just like a pap smear, except they put a vinegar solution (that only stings slightly) to luminate the papiloma cells. then if they're severe or whatever, they may have to biopsy a small area (which feels like a strong pinch). you can't have sex for 4 weeks generally after a biopsy. dunno about a colpo, i think it's the same. ask your Dr. or do research about any questions you have regarding any of this.
let me just tell you that the colposcopy is not surgery. it's not a procedure to remove or treat the cells or the HPV. it's only to see what cells are where on the cervix. after the results come back, your Dr. will discuss possible procedures for removal of the HPV cells. i had a "LEEP" done, which is a procedure that uses a laser to remove the bad cells from your cervix and they put you under for it. it was easy and only mild pain (which they prescribed pain killers for). can't have sex for 4 weeks after that either. it's considered an outpatient surgery. if you have any questions, you can PM/IM me or ask James for my info.
oh one more thing...i know James and i think the best policy would be to talk to him about it. it's not as serious as it may sound. research the internet or talk to your doctor for facts that you can give him to ease his (and your) mind. if you ask, i'm sure he will be there for you as much as he can. but communication is key.
hope all goes well, and don't be nervous, you're just taking care of yourself and that's what women are supposed to do!
~aRiE