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thed00t · 11-23-2006, 05:50 PM

I'm guessing you're young? Young girls tend to want the prince charming fellow and that tends to lend to situtations as you've described.

Now each girl is different. The key thing here is to always just be yourself and not have any expectations of the girl. Don't lay past issues with relationships on new ones.

That said, I've noticed that around 25 (each girl is different) girls tend to lose this whole "tall dark and handsome knight in shining armor" fantasy and get a bit more realistic.

You also gotta realized that there is a time and place for everything. There is a time to open up to a girl and there is a time to solve your own problems. Women are not like men. We like to solve problems. Lots of women just like to listen and be listened to. So make sure that you have tried to solve your own problem before bringing her into it. Also make sure that you bring it up at a good time. Such as after listening to her issues, or doing something nice for her. I.E. Also, and I can't stress this enough, when you talk about your issue, make sure that you don't come off as complaining. Make sure she knows that you're coming to her for advice. Bring it up in a manner that ensures she knows that you just aren't whining.

If a girl doesn't like you for sharing your emotions, and that is something you do, then she doesn't like YOU. This means she shouldn't be together. Sorry pal, it's just better off that way. Find a girl that likes you for you and not some charecter you are playing.

11-23-2006, 05:50 PM	#32 (permalink)
thed00t I'm a fool.	I'm guessing you're young? Young girls tend to want the prince charming fellow and that tends to lend to situtations as you've described. Now each girl is different. The key thing here is to always just be yourself and not have any expectations of the girl. Don't lay past issues with relationships on new ones. That said, I've noticed that around 25 (each girl is different) girls tend to lose this whole "tall dark and handsome knight in shining armor" fantasy and get a bit more realistic. You also gotta realized that there is a time and place for everything. There is a time to open up to a girl and there is a time to solve your own problems. Women are not like men. We like to solve problems. Lots of women just like to listen and be listened to. So make sure that you have tried to solve your own problem before bringing her into it. Also make sure that you bring it up at a good time. Such as after listening to her issues, or doing something nice for her. I.E. Also, and I can't stress this enough, when you talk about your issue, make sure that you don't come off as complaining. Make sure she knows that you're coming to her for advice. Bring it up in a manner that ensures she knows that you just aren't whining. If a girl doesn't like you for sharing your emotions, and that is something you do, then she doesn't like YOU. This means she shouldn't be together. Sorry pal, it's just better off that way. Find a girl that likes you for you and not some charecter you are playing. Last edited by thed00t; 11-23-2006 at 05:53 PM..