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Giving up is fine, it saves you a lot of time and heartbreak sometimes.
Giving up and "winning" basically ends the same for me. If I've decided I probably no longer have a chance (or if I'm "winning" and have a good chance) I'll be as direct as I possibily can with her. Which leaves the decision to her (which it's really always been up to the persuee) and even though it rarely succeeds (when I'm "losing") I know that I tried and I'm free to move on. I hate "what ifs".
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