I can't dance. I am totally unable to hear the beat in music, which makes dancing to it almost impossilbe.
I dance anyway because it feels good. I don't give a hoot what people are thinking about how I look, it feels good, so I do it. I dance around the house, I dance in bars when I go, which is not often, I do the dance and bop in your car seat thing.
I also sing along with the radio in my car and house and anywhere else because I like to. Again, don't care that other people are turned off by this. It feels good so I do it.
My husband and I have been together for 7 years now. He has danced with me one time, in our living room, for 1/2 of a song that came on the radio. He will not dance with me anywhere at all. It makes me sad that if I want to do something that I enjoy so much I will have to do it with another man.
I don't care what a man looks like when he's dancing, I don't care what I look like, I like to dance and I want to dance with a partner, therefor I'm intentionally looking for a man that will dance with me.
It doesn't hurt that I listen to Country music and that all the bars that play that type of music still have the dances that involved actual touch of two people, at least around the waist and such, its hard to two step without touching
. Plus, thats one EASY dance, two steps in one direction, one step back the other direction, to easy to do and difficult to screw it up to badly.