1. Men like breasts for a ton of different reasons. Personally, I just find that there is something deep within my psyche that drives me to really get turned on by breasts. It may have a lot to do with the view of women as the bearer of life and such and breasts are a symbol of that (being our very first instinctive form of sustenance)... for instance when our son was born, the first thing he did when my wife held him was open his mouth as wide as he could and find her breast. Furthermore, they are just pleasing to look at... being all curvy and parabaloid like. Hell, look at modern architecture... car design in particular. It's just hardwired into us.
2. Acting. Trying to sound like they are REALLY enjoying what they are doing even though they are just earning a living. This is really unappealing but completely understandable. As previously pointed out, though, there exists porn where the actors are truly enjoying themselves, but it's rare... but it really is the best. ;-)
3. Ambiance AND, as previous posters have pointed out, masking other noises that the editors are too lazy to edit out.
4. Acting. I've had a lot of sex in my life and pretty much can't ever remember high heels having much to do with it... maybe one time in a bathroom at the Olive Garden, but not normally. I guess after having done a crazy amount of polling and statistical analysis (yeah right), the porn industry has come to the conclusion that high heels are necessary to turn men on... I guess they forgot to poll me. =)
5. I stay away from the purposefully "ethnic" porn for that reason: oftentimes the directors force the actors to play to the stereotypes of their own ethnicity... this makes porn a lot more degrading than it has to be and very unappealing to me. So I avoid it.
6. Sometimes my wife likes a little roughness in sex... and it's actually hard to oblige her that as I'm really docile by nature. The way she puts it, though, the occasional rough sex is like spices on good food... if it's done just enough but not too much it makes it so very delicious. However, the recent trend in pornography of "gagging" and "gaping" is REALLY horrible in my opinion... as Ratbastid pointed out, I agree that this trend has a lot to do with the fact that there is SO MUCH porn that is so easily accessible (having been proliferated by the internet) that natural competition has led pornographers trying to "one up" each other. IMO it's just gone way overboard, and I would hope that the porn market responds to this by just not buying it, thereby curbing it... that probably won't ever happen though. :-/ BUT, I suppose to each his/her own... I just find it particularly horrible.
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