I would say just make sure you don't get too attached to her, I know this sounds totally corny but I see it as the Pokemon gameboy game. You have her in site in an open field with many other girls around, however you're throwing a ball out to catch her and hopefully keep her, but its up to her and if she is strong enough to get caught with you (get in a new relationship) or toss the ball aside (she needs more time/wants to play the field before commitment) and make you keep trying to get her. If that even makes sense? Anyhow, just don't invest too much hope because it could all go wrong. When we girls break up with people who have been in our lives for a while it takes a good chunk of time to get over it and move on because we're just complicated like that, so like the others said give her plenty of space in her bubble, don't press anything on her, let it be her idea but be certain to let her know you're still thinking of her so when she is ready to be "caught" you won't be hurt or shot down.
Best of luck! These situations are rough because a persons mental state is kind of funky, but just do the best you can, remember to stay happy, YOU are number one in your life. Don't pull out too many stops too early.
Good luck! Hope you understood my funky thing earlier!
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