Keeping her around?
Okay, I know I only seem to post about my not-quite relationship problems, but whatever. If you are only going to criticize, please dont respond at all.
So heres the deal. I met a girl online that lives an hour away from me. We talked on the phone for 6 hours one night, then went out the next night and spent 6 or so hours together. The thing is, she is living with her boyfriend, but working on moving out and is going to break up with him. So we've been talking pretty much whenever we can for the past week, with plans to go out tomorrow. Today she tells me that she's decided once she breaks up, she wants to date for awhile before getting another relationship. She knows I'd like to try more than a casual dating thing with her. I'm cool with going slow and letting her take her time to get over her ex, but my question is this: How do I keep her fully interested in me when she is 'just dating' so when she wants a relationship I get her. I know she feels strongly for me already, I just dont want to have her jump for another guy just because they are closer and get to spend more time with her, things like that.
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