That's a hell of a long time to be away from your wife and child.
I am sorry to hear that you have to go through that... I know you signed up for it with eyes open, but I don't envy you, man. I hope you'll be able to check into TFP whenever possible and let us know how it is; most of all, though, I hope you'll be able to stay in as much communication with your wife as possible. Get lots of phone cards, yes!