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It sounds like you just haven't found a good match for you... Everyone, male and female, has differnet want and needs. Some want a close emotional and open bond with their parnter, and some want someone to have coffee with every morning.
It sounds like the relationship you were in was a relationship for her. She stayed in her comfort zone. Her appartment, her emotional space, you were supposed to fulfill her needs. And like fredweena said... What you don't say and get off your chest today, is only going to build and be an issue later on...
All you can do is learn from previous mistakes, and try again... And I guess it depends on if you're looking for Mrs. Right... or Misses Right Now...
Either way... Good luck...
If you want a relationship to be equal, it has to be a goal and out in the open from the beginning. it's not something that can be sprung at a latter point in time.
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Robin Williams.
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