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You seem to be more concerned with not doing the bad things than doing the right things. You also seem to be putting women on a bit of pedestal with regards to your bitterness. You must remember women are not acting rationally and choosing the guy they think who is best for them, they are going with their "feeling on the night" which generally means waiting for the man who respects them the least but understands them the most to take away all that insecurity and tell them to suck his cock.
I have a great deal of respect for women, love spending time with them whether its sexual or not. I'm very good with picking women up, although I am pretty good once things get going.
The men I know who are really good at picking up women are the ones who harbour the most disregard for them. This disregard fuels their determination to fuck them.
My advice is next party instead of assuming women are decent and respecting them, treat them with interest but benial disrespect and e.g. express your bitterness at being fucked over. This is not easy and won't work the first few times, especially if your nervous (and girls can smell a virgin). But once you let it out in the right way women will compete to win your respect through sex, love, attention or whatever else you want.
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