I think the reason people like to rant and rave about there problems (including me) is to show people how life could be worse (or better) and it great to discuss and have other members tell you it's gonna be ok and they will tell you about their similar situations they have faced and then you realize it will be all ok. Yes we should bring more positive stories into the forum (hey who couldn't use some enlightenement?) The journals are probably the best way to rant, rave and scream and shout, hopefully more people will use them