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Originally Posted by Sage
If I was dating someone and found out they were taking either viagra or a "performance enhancer" (like one to stop premature ejactulations) recreationally I would most likely drop him like a hot rock.
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Why? Why wouldn't you help him overcome his dependence?
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Originally Posted by Sage
come to terms with your penis size
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"Does my penis look small?" is about the same thing as "does this dress make me look bad?" It's a self-esteem issue and can be very difficult to overcome and requires a lot of reassurance from a partner. How would you feel if you asked your partner, "Do you think this dress makes me look bad?" and she/he replied, "You just need to come to terms with it."
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Originally Posted by Sage
learn to please a woman in bed naturally
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This is part of the problem. It's not about pleasing a woman in bed. It's about pleasing each other. Each partner is equally responsible for their own "pleasure" as much as for their partners pleasure. That's one key to overcoming premature ejaculation.
There is too much pressure for men to "perform." More women need to learn to be equally responsible for their own orgasm.
<b>As for the topic of this post:</b> The drug does NOT address the issue which is, "Why is the patient prematurely ejaculating?" If you identify the cause, then you can work on a drug-free way to overcome it. That's most likely why the FDA did not approve this drug. The potential for abuse is much higher in drugs like this; which we've seen with Viagra.
However, Viagra DOES treat a real physical problem: erectile dysfunction. Viagra was NEVER meant to be used recreationally so guys could "go all night." It was meant to be prescribed for men who could not physically maintain an erection. Not because of psychological reasons ... PHYSICAL reasons.