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sas,
with little else to go on: first question, do you ever speak to these girls in person, or is this entirely an msn thing? if its in chat-land, then honestly i have no information for you.
if its verbal communication, then i'm guessing there's something in your voice that screams "stalker." while your words are translated as saying "maybe let's grab some coffee this weekend" your tremulous voice is demanding "what kind of panties do you like shoved down your throat? i want see you every wednesday at 5. every wednesday!!!" chicks pick up on these things.
additional quick question: you're at said party, you're flirting with said ladies. what happens next? do you, through mutual unspoken volition, move into an isolated area, or do you break out from the party after a few laughs and not actually "hang out with them while they are drunk"? if the chick is all up in your business, and you just bust out...might not be the message she's looking for. i'd suggest you operate a little more in the moment, when the flirtation is going down. as you are finding out, it doesn't always carry over to the next day. I'm not saying take advantage of the girl, but they like little fuzzy moments, they're laughing and having fun and not worried about jack shit, and if they associate that with you, all the better. if your tongue ends up in her mouth, who's to blame?
what i can say is that if you've got 4-5 ladies in your jock every weekend, but you drive them away every week, something is up. if its not your direct wording, its your voice or your body language.
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